The following is a dialogue that occurred in another forum quite by accident. The original topic petered out and the three of us, who have been exchanging thoughts for several months, decided to pursue our ideas until we reached a conclusion. Qingu is an avowed atheist who is deeply disillusioned with religion generally has a low opinion of it. Zuma is a deist who is not personally religious thinks that religion can be a necessary and constructive force in people's lives, provided it is in keeping with the times. And, LostInParadise is a rationalist and an agnostic (I think) who is spiritual but not religious. Despite our differences we come to a surprising amount of agreement on the points we pursue, and despite our critical view of religion, we tend to agree on the value of spirituality.
Qingu: Religion doesn't provide anything that isn't provided by secular alternatives. It's just better at marketing to poor, uneducated people and it's better at enforcement through authority cults. I think the word "spiritual" has no actual meaning. It's such a fuzzy word and it's typically wielded tautologically as a synonym for "religious."
Zuma: Then perhaps, Qingu, "Humanity" has no meaning either. It's just a fuzzy tautological synonym for "society" with no spiritual dimension.
The word "spiritual" like the word "Humanity" points to the very essence of what it means to be a moral being in the human context. An "essence," in this respect, is an emergent and evolving phenomenon; it does not have a list of strict denotative criteria that define it completely, but that does not mean that it is without meaning. Terms like "human dignity" or "civilized," or "cruel and unusual" are similarly open-ended so that their meaning can evolve to fit the cultural circumstances.
They are part of a moral discourse, and as such, they derive their meaning from that discourse. There is a spiritual hunger in our society—there is a deep longing to belong to something greater than oneself, whether it is a social movement, or something more philosophically abstract.If you don't want to be part of that discourse because you have painted yourself into an intellectual corner, or because you find such things cheap and cultish, then fine. But don't go to the ridiculous length of denying the very existence of other people's spirituality. It smacks of bad faith, because it refuses to acknowledge other people's sense of humanity, and how they use religion (or whatever) to connect with it. In a sense it denies people's humanity by attacking the way they go about connecting with it.
Sure, that method is fallible and people sometimes come to a distorted sense of what is required of them as human beings, but that is something one addresses within the dialogue, not by denouncing the whole discourse.
Qingu: Zuma, you brought up some other "fuzzy" words like humanity, dignity, etc. In my experience talking to people, these words are significantly less fuzzy than "spiritual." When you say "humanity" or "dignity," everyone knows what you're talking about. It's fuzzy, but there is a more or less consensus view what is included in these definitions.Spiritual? Not so much. A sunset is "spiritual" for some people. For others it's a relationship with a fictional character from an ancient religious text. My problem with the word is that too often people tautologically define "spiritual" to mean "religious."
For example, I've heard the argument "atheists are bad/mean/whatever because they don't respect people's spiritualism." Okay… what does that word mean? I respect beauty, thinking that sunsets are beautiful; I respect love and human connection. What I don't respect is the content of religious scriptures and traditions and too often the person making this argument is using "spiritual" as a synonym for the very thing I'm criticizing to begin with, in order to shut down discussion and criticism. It's annoying.
LostInParadise: To put in my two cents worth, I see secular spirituality as an awareness of being part of something larger. The something larger can be humanity or the natural world. It also involves a sense of how the various components of the whole interact in a myriad of ways to reinforce one another. What is required is not a leap in faith, as with religious belief, but a change in perspective.
Qingu: Why not just call it "altruism" or "being part of something greater than yourself"?
Zuma: Because "altruism" is too mono-dimensional and pale a concept for what people are experiencing.
I don't think that spirituality is all that difficult to understand. I agree with LostInParadise here, and I would add that in addition to seeing oneself as part of a whole, there is an attentiveness to the moral claims of one's fellow man that leads one into commitment to preserving the social whole.
If you listen to intelligent theists, the bottom line is that when they pray, or commune, or "talk" to God, there is a felt sense that there is someone there on the other end of the line. And, in a sense there is. It may not be what they think it is, but there is something there.
Ultimately, it does not matter whether it is "really" a supernatural being, or something more prosaic, such as our mirror neurons constructing a "generalized other" (a la Michele Foucault) we imbue a personality exemplifying certain moral values abstracted from our social experience, and given a "high quiet voice" in one's mind. It may not be an all-powerful supernatural being in the sense we normally contemplate God, nonetheless, it is an immaterial, transcendent personality that stands over and above the individual, insofar as it is a reification of the moral life of the collectivity. Some people may experience this as a "conscience," others as the voice of an "other," speaking to them through their minds. But, however one constructs it, it gives voice to the moral claims of one's fellow man, it eases the feeling that you are morally alone in the world, and it helps you navigate the moral dilemmas of your world.
If you listen carefully to people when they speak of their spirituality, it is clear that they have a definite "something" in mind, and that something defines their humanity. Some become most acutely aware of this "spirit-self" while watching a sunset or other thing of beauty; for others it is a beautiful feeling of ego-abandonment they get when they meditate, or take certain drugs, or lose themselves in a religious ritual or hymn. For others, it is a beautiful mathematical or scientific insight. Beauty evokes spirituality because it awakens a shared aesthetic, rooted in deep shared values.If the person's only experience with spirituality is in a religious context, then for them the two ideas are going to be irrevocably linked. That does not mean that the two concepts are irrevocably welded together everywhere and for all time. As I hope I have pointed out, while people experience their spirituality framed in ways that seem to defy crisp definition, there are important commonalities insofar as "spirituality" is a way of placing oneself in a moral universe (made up of the moral claims of one's fellow man, which may or may not be projected onto mythological constructs).
I agree with you that some religions are destructive and pernicious, but that should not poison the whole idea of spirituality. It is possible to define one's humanity—one's spirituality—in more self-actualizing terms, emphasizing things like reason, free choice, respect for others, dignity and acting in good faith, using a liberally interpreted religious template as a touchstone for collective deliberation. I personally define spirituality in terms of being committed to healing the world.
Qingu: I don't have any problems with spirituality in the various ways you've defined it. I just don't like words that tend to come with imprecise semantics. Another example being "God," which can mean anything from a particular character like Dionysus to the Force from Star Wars to an entirely atheistic universe.
Zuma: I share your quest for semantic precision and certitude, but I think it will come some day, when people move beyond their polarizing rhetoric and come to a consensus about these matters. The advantage of using the language of "spirituality" is that it allows you to enter into respectful dialogue in which it is possible to find common ground with people who would otherwise regard you as their enemy. Meeting people on their terms is not only a vital gesture of good faith, it allows you to stake out a position they can relate to and respect without losing sight of what is really important.
At the end of the day, it doesn't really matter if the voice in your head that speaks to you of morality is "really" a god, or a social-psychological construct that personifies the core values of your group. What matters is whether you will help a stranger in need; whether you treat others with the same charity, dignity, and respect that you would wish to be treated; whether you will act in good faith to promote human solidarity by including everyone in your moral universe; and whether you will enlist others in repairing the human legacy of cruelty, exclusion and bad faith. What matters more than doctrine and creed (and even semantic clarity) is whether you can bridge the gap between your individual values and your group's values, and your group's values and the values necessary for humanity's survival.As I've said elsewhere, I view humanity as being in a race against time. As technologies become more powerful and interdependent, it takes fewer and fewer misguided people to precipitate an apocalypse. So, pulling together to repair humanity's legacies of exclusion and bad faith are absolutely vital to our survival as a species.
I understand your frustration with the concept of "God." One way to look at it that might make it more palatable is that even though "god" can mean anything from Dionysus, to the Force from Star Wars, to a vague "something" or a self-organizing intelligent Cosmos, the details of these constructs are always going to be different from person to person. But this god, however conceived, is a vital anchor point which the individual uses to place himself in a moral universe. When you disrespect that construct, you are, in a very real sense, shaking that person's moral world. What is important is not so much how "god" is constructed but what the person feels obligated to do. And that is always open for discussion while the person's conception of god is often not.
Qingu: My problem with your approach is that it feels somehow manipulative. You're clothing your essentially atheistic belief in the language of "spirituality" so you can better infiltrate these people's worldviews to change your mind. I don't mean to characterize you as pernicious—in fact, I think that's an admirable way about going about these kind of discussions and I'm glad there are "respectful" secularists like you who want to bridge the gap. My point is that, rather, certain religious people may interpret what you are doing as pernicious, based on my above characterization. Whereas, while I'm fairly antagonistic towards religious folks, at least they know what they're getting when they engage with me.Really, I feel like there's room for both approaches.
Zuma: No, I assure you, my spirituality is quite genuine (as you can see from the rest of this blog, and my other blog Zuma's Commentary on Mind, Spirit, and Religion. Now, while it is true I am a deist (and morally opposed to all things supernatural), I do have a naturalistic, scientifically informed conception of God that allows me to relate to religious people on their own terms.
This is not a subterfuge because I really don't care whether the other person is a theist or an atheist. I only care if they are interested in healing humanity's legacy of exclusion, cruelty, and bad faith. As I keep saying, it matters not one whit to me how the person constructs his god, or if he even has a god construct per se; what matters to me is whether the person is going to help a stranger in need, whether he is going to act in good faith in his dealings, and whether he is going make peace or war. If the person thinks that his God requires him to dehumanize and scapegoat others, I am not going to tell him that it is wrong for him to believe in God. His belief in God is not the problem. The problem is that his belief in God has been perverted to justify a pernicious morality.
For all our previous conversations, I think we are just now getting somewhere. You are concerned with what people believe, and whether it is intellectually consistent with the formal tenets of their religion. I am not at all concerned with these "mere rationalizations." I am concerned with what is in people's hearts, and whether people are loving, moral and constructive.
Qingu: I would dispute that your God is on the "same terms" as the various Gods of actually religious people. Certainly many religious people would dispute this (which is why I do—relatability needs to go both ways).I also think you underestimate how important it is to many religious people that their specific god is the one true God. I mean, obviously there are exceptions. Lots of exceptions. And in Europe. In America and in the Muslim world, though, religious people don't really go in for that Unitarian "they're all shades of the same truth" stuff. If you tell an average Muslim that Allah is the same as the Buddha or the dude who knocked up Mary and had a kid, they are going to think you're full of it.
Likewise for telling American Christians Christ's death, Godhood, and salvation is super-important to most of them, and if you say "no it's not because your God is the same as a God who doesn't have a son and you don't need salvation from," they're going to say that you're wrong.Also, as for "what's in their hearts"...
I've talked to a number of Christians who I'm assuming are basically good, decent people. And when I show them the verses in their scripture where God orders you to commit genocide, they're like "well… obviously those people deserved to be mass-murdered."Another person I talked to, a Baha'i—probably the most "progressive" religion—was incapable of disagreeing with a writing by his religion's prophet decrying homosexuality as unnatural. Because obviously Baha'lluah had his reasons for writing that and who is he to say his prophet is wrong?
The content of religious ideology is not entirely separate from what is in religious people's hearts. It is an authority structure, functions as the supposed bedrock of their faith, and it informs who they are and how they form moral beliefs. They are not "the same" as secular atheists—just as conservatives are not the same as liberals. To deny that, I think, is to deny the importance of their religion in their own lives.
Zuma: As for my deistic conception of God not being "on the same terms" with theistic conceptions of God, I think you should check out the dialogues that are actually going on between leading theologians and scientists. In that regard, I would refer you to the Closer to Truth website where you will find hundreds of interviews with leading scientists and theologians and a very respectful and constructive dialogue between the two.
I agree that there are "huge numbers" of people who think their beliefs are the unchanging bedrock truth revealed in antiquity and handed down unchanged. But, I submit, there are even larger numbers—in fact the vast majority—who aren't so sure. In fact, I would venture to say that the vast bulk of humanity, religious and non-religious alike, despite professing a faith, aren't really all that involved in it. Rather, they are mostly ordinary Joes just trying to muddle through life and be a "good person" as best they can.
And then here you come along telling them that it's all rubbish and rot, because on p.203 of their sacred text it says that "thou shalt poke thy neighbor with a red hot poker" (or some such nonsense that hasn't been observed for centuries and isn't applicable in the modern world) and you present this as something they must believe, since their scripture says so, or they are a intellectually dishonest, hypocrites, or worse. The only choice you leave them is to abandon their religion cold turkey, or brazen it out by defending it. And you are shocked, just shocked, that they choose to defend the "indefensible."
Yes, it is true, that most of the world's religions contain the baggage of a coercive, violent past. But it is also true that religions evolve, and they are struggling mightily to put all this behind them. Look at anything by Karen Armstrong. Rabbi Michael Lerner makes a distinction between what he calls "The Right Hand of God," which is all the coercive, militant-fascistic, fundamentalist nonsense you disapprove of and The Left Hand of God, which is an attempt to leave all that behind. Telling people that they must embrace every retrograde aspect that their religion has accumulated over the centuries isn't intellectual honesty, it's intellectual bullying, and it is vicious.In this respect, you are the kind of atheist that religious people hate, and rightly so—not because you aren't just "denying God," you scoff at the very idea of spirituality and make them feel stupid for trying to eke out a sense of humanity from their religion. If my discussion of that above has any weight (and it was looking like I was making some headway), you should be able to see that when you insult people's spirituality, you insult their very humanity. And when you attack their religion, you are undermining their sense of human solidarity.
Instead of addressing people's spirituality—their generosity of spirit, their commitment to the greater good, their solidarity with the human race—you bring up divisive points of doctrine and scripture as if these things are really important in the ultimate scheme of things, rather than things they believe they must profess in order to maintain their identity as a "good" or "religious" person. Rather than let these things go, you inflame the very fanaticism you deplore, and then you deplore it. It is cynical and vicious game.
Qingu: I don't think there's anything "vicious" about asking people to examine the content of the religion they claim to profess faith in. Your argument can be turned on its head by saying that such people's "goodness" and "spirituality" are actually divorced from the content of their religious scriptures and traditions. Which I'd agree with. But if that's the case then why on earth do they need those things?
Zuma: It often is the way you do it. The reason people need religion is because that is the language and framework through which they understand their humanity. Perhaps in time people can evolve institutions that promote human solidarity in the way that religions do now, but until that time, an attack on religion is pretty much an attack on human solidarity.
Qingu: To a lesser extent, political ideologies function as a "language and framework" through which people understand their humanity, certainly their social roles. Would you say that attacking political ideologies is an "attack on human solidarity"? I have a big problem with the idea that certain ideologies are "off-limits" to criticism. That's the beginning of censorship. It's also patronizing to the ideologies in question.
Zuma: Certainly political ideology and spirituality both provide a vocabulary and a conceptual framework, but there is an important difference: Spirituality is about the values which inform the person's humanity, particularly insofar as the exhort the individual to place the greater good ahead of his own, and to adopt personal values like generosity, kindness, and forgiveness in order to lay the foundations of cooperative relations with others. Spirituality places the individual in a moral universe in which such things as compassion, good faith, and the golden rule invite him to empathize with his fellow man. It is, in this respect, inclusive, cooperative, meliorist and constructive.Political ideology, on the other hand, places the individual in a competitive arena where he is encouraged to engage in zero-sum thinking. Political ideology provides the rationalizations necessary to support banding together to pursue the narrow, selfish interests of one's class or party, generally to the detriment of others.
I agree with you that no ideology should be "off-limits" to criticism—and, indeed, I would wholeheartedly join with you in criticizing instances where spirituality has been replaced by political ideology, such as we find in the theocratic machinations of groups like James Dobson's Focus on the Family, or Al Qaeda's jihadists. In these instances, the solidarity of the group is geared toward denying the humanity of others and destroying their solidarity.
Where I think we part company is that I do not see religion as all about control. Some of it is, of course, but much of it is liberating. People who experience awe in a sunset, or who feel a kind of "force" that suffuses all of life, or who feel "spiritual but not religious" have all managed to shed the authoritarian trappings of religion and have developed a truly constructive outlook on the world, even if they still cling to their old church. It seems almost churlish to deny it.
Why is it important for people to examine the content of their religious scriptures and traditions? Do people actually draw their spirituality from these doctrinal anachronisms? No. So, what is constructive about bringing them up and telling people that in order to be consistent they "can't pick and choose" and that if they are to be intellectually honest, that they must swallow stuff that they find morally repugnant? (Which is utter nonsense, since you not only can pick and choose, you have to pick and choose, since there are so many inconsistencies and contradictions in these works.)Now there are some religious doctrines that I do criticize when I get a chance, such as the Calvinist doctrine of total depravity. But I do so on the grounds that it promotes an unhealthy spirituality; i.e., it distorts your perception of you fellow man that is unjust. This doctrine has motivated untold child abuse, and all its crippling sequelae. Instead of telling people they have to believe this or they have to reject everything they believe in is not only untrue, it is unfair, and very possibly an act of bad faith.
People always come before principle.
LostInParadise: One thing that distinguishes religion from both politics and secular spirituality is the unwavering nature of religious fanatics, convinced that their particular interpretation of some holy book is the only permissible doctrine.
This is unfortunate, because there are some important issues that need to be discussed and that do not have such clear answers. Consider the issue of gay marriage. There is an important philosophical argument here that does not get aired. How should we define marriage? What is its purpose? Are we to allow anyone to marry anyone else or are there reasonable restrictions?Alternatively, consider abortion. There are important issues here as well. If we abandon the notion that a soul is grafted onto a newly fertilized egg, then at what point does an embryo become human? What are the defining characteristics of being human? It would be nice if we could get away from religious and anti-religious dogmatism and openly discuss such issues so that we might reach some sort of consensus.
Zuma: At this point, I would like to recommend an excellent book that I consider the core reading that informs this blog: The Left Hand of God by Michael Lerner. And, for an analysis of the contemporary mixture of religion and right wing politics, Republican Gomorrah by Max Blumenthal is an essential touchstone. Blumenthal sets the stage for describing a politics of personal crisis in which people with deep personal conflicts "self-medicating" themselves with religious conversion, wherein by turning themselves over to God in a born-again experience, they trade all their little problems for one big one—i.e., believing what they are told in order to be "saved."
Blumenthal picks up a theme in Philip Greven's Spare the Child which describes the prevalence of child abuse in Protestant denominations, particularly in the aggressive bullying politics of James Dobson and his Focus on the Family. In particular, he discusses the psychological fallout as abuse tends to create a kind of sadomasochistic undertow in which true believers alternately become aggressive bullies, or ineffectual, impotent, martyred masochists, who seem to become uniquely susceptible to being dominated and controlled and given both to violent fantasies and paranoid delusions. So, a good part of the personal crisis that drives these folks toward born-again conversions is a product of having their wills broken while they were helpless children.
Lerner describes how this translates into abortion politics (and anti-gay politics as well):
"...people's longing for mutual recognition and connection to each other is frequently coupled with melancholy resignation to the idea that such longing is utopian and cannot be fulfilled in this world. Yet the desire for this connection remains a driving force in the unconscious lives of most Americans."
"Part of the energy of the antiabortion movement… comes from its ability to symbolically address this desire. The fetus is a symbol of an idealized, innocent being, actually the little child within us, who is not being adequately loved and accepted in our daily experience. The desire to be loved and accepted as human beings—a completely rational desire—is split off by these antiabortionists, in part because they themselves (like so many of the rest of us in this society) have been taught to view that part of themselves as scary, unobtainable, and narcissistic. Acknowledging it would require getting in touch with our anger at all the things that prevent us and have always prevented us from getting that love and recognition. So instead we project this desire onto the fetus, which is then conceptualized as the idealized and pure version of ourselves—an innocent and perfect unborn creature, and, because, unborn, not yet sullied by the world. Those who felt conflicted about standing up for themselves when, as children, they did not receive the love and recognition they badly needed, and deeply wounded because no one stood up for them when they were vulnerable as children, can now symbolically stand up for the beautiful part of themselves, which was underappreciated, by standing up for this fetus."
And here we get to how this spills over onto gays and others: "But because this projection and process of idealization involves an evasion and denial of the actual pain in our lives, it is accompanied by another split from consciousness—a denial of the rage and hatred that people carry within themselves all their lives to the extent that they live lives in which their fundamental humanity is not fully confirmed or was not adequately confirmed when they were children. So what do they do with their rage? In the case of some right-wing antiabortion activists… tat rage is directed against a demonized Other whose humanity is ignored or denied, transformed by imagination into the "murderers" killing little babies—or, in other instances, against the evil criminals who must be executed, the drug addicts upon whom we must wage war, the Muslims or terrorists who are imagined to be posed to take over the world unless we forcibly stop them, the liberal judges who are willing to allow Schiavo to die, or whoever else pops up as a possible target for their anger and who appears in their minds as the slaughterers of the innocent."
"Both the unborn fetus and the evil 'other' are imaginary constructs that carry an unconscious meaning, reflecting repression of people's most fundamental social need."
These, of course, are not the only reasons for opposing abortion, but when abortion politics, and conservative politics generally, are viewed in light of this sullied innocence and the resulting free-floating rage harnessed in defense of the fetus, one gets a sense of what is behind the vehemence and violence emanating from the Christian Right. It also puts into perspective the complete lack of interest in promoting the policies that could be called pro-life when it comes to militarism, the death penalty, or adequate support for children once born. In short, it gives us an insight into the origins of the personal pain that hold this culture of personal crisis together.










